Star Wars: Knights of the Old Republic/Bastila

Speaking to Bastila can unlock the quest for, once the first has been acquired on Dantooine, and you can receive experience (albeit only 250 XP) for completing this. Acquiring a second Star Map unlocks further dialogs, which only help a female character better understand her but allow a male to romance her, although later dialogs cannot be unlocked if some earlier ones weren't completed before acquiring a third and fourth Star Map. The romance must be completed before acquiring a fourth Star Map and leaving that world.

Taris
After completing the but before proceeding with, Bastila will speak to you in your hideout:

Otherwise:


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If you don't speak to her again before escaping Taris, you may be prompted to do so when she's in your party:


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This is as far as you can advance this quest before escaping Taris, although once you've done so these dialogs will be unavailable.

Dantooine
Once you've arrived on ../Dantooine/, completed your Jedi trials and been ordered to investigate ../Ruins/ by the Jedi Council, Bastila joins your party again and, once you've talked about that (shared) dream or departed Dantooine, you can speak to her again:

Male or female, any response indicating you're not taking this or any subsequent question seriously ends the dialog:

Otherwise:

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First Star Map
Acquiring the first on Dantooine automatically unlocks the following, once you've completed the previous dialog:

In every case:


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If the two previous dialogs aren't completed before acquiring a third Star Map, further dialogs cannot be unlocked once it's acquired. Otherwise…

s can unlock further dialogs once previous dialogs have been completed, but so can entering and exiting the ../Ebon Hawk/ and adding Bastila to your party (you may also be able to speak to her in the inside, but it's quicker to just enter and exit before speaking outside).

First
Alternatively, if you've completed both the previous dialogs but not spoken to her since, after acquiring a third Star Map she speaks to you when you return to the of the Ebon Hawk:


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Second
Completing the previous dialog automatically unlocks this one:

This response allows you to explore the most options:

That response ends the dialog. Otherwise, questioning not being allowed to love or asking her if she misses her family at all allows you to progress (more quickly):

That response ends the dialog. Otherwise:


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If the two previous dialogs aren't completed before acquiring a fourth Star Map, further dialogs cannot be unlocked once it's acquired.

Third

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Alternatively, if you've completed the two previous dialogs but not spoken to her since, after acquiring a fourth Star Map she speaks to you when you return to the of the Ebon Hawk:


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However, if Bastila speaks to you (not vice versa) then further dialogs cannot be unlocked.


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Once this dialog is complete, Malare can approach you while Bastila is in your party to talk about.

Fourth
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Second Star Map
Remaining dialogs can be unlocked after acquiring a second Star Map.

Fifth

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If you give Bastila a hard time:


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Telling her to leave you alone completes this quest prematurely:

Otherwise:

Sixth
Otherwise:

In either case:


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Seventh

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After telling her you don't need her, this quest can be completed prematurely for a male character:


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Otherwise:


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This completes this quest for a female character.

Eighth
Further dialog can be unlocked by a male character:


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Otherwise:


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Kiss
If a male character unlocked and completed the last dialog but wasn't speaking to Bastila in the Ebon Hawk's, you'll need to return there to speak to her again:

She takes you to the empty in the west wing of the Ebon Hawk:


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Otherwise, you kiss:


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She returns to the cockpit. Do not talk to her again about what happened between you, or this ends your romance and later dialog options are not unlocked:

Otherwise, the kiss completes the romance with Bastila until a fifth Star Map has been acquired, and you've traveled to the summit of the Temple of the Ancients in the Star Forge System. It must be completed before acquiring a fourth Star Map and leaving that world.

Bastila's Mother
After acquiring the first on Dantooine, and unlocking and completing the  dialog, if Bastila is in your party then Malare, a Twi'lek female, may approach and speak to you in one of the following locations:

Otherwise:


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Some experience (250 XP) is received for completing this quest. If you speak to Bastila at any time before encountering in the Anchorhead cantina on Tatooine:

However, once this quest is activated you cannot speak to Bastila about herself until it's been completed with mother and daughter parting on good terms, so if you want a male character to romance her then you might want to avoid activating it until that romance is complete (completing this quest is not necessary to complete the romance, although if you want to do so then it must also be completed before acquiring a fourth Star Map and leaving that world). If Bastila and her mother part on poor terms then this ends your romance, even if you've already kissed.

Banter
Bastila may speak to other party members as well when both are in your party:


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Bastila surreptitiously uses on Mission, knocking her over.


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